Our Hearts Must Go On …..
Monday, September 24th, 20072 days ago I went to see a client. He was really upset about his insurance policies. He is scheduled to go for a heart operation today, and the amount he could potentially claim from his life policies is only RM70.00! Although the entire cost of his surgery will be covered by his company’s group medical insurance policy, he is not happy with the meagre sum claimable from his own life policies. The surgery, i suspect is a key-hole surgery, not an open heart surgery.
It began about 15 years ago, when he was an insurance agent himself. He bought 2 life policies with attached Hospital Benefits of RM30 per day and RM40 per day respectively. When I first became his insurance consultant, I told him to let me have a look at all his existing policies, but he did not find it a priority to do so.
I was sitting in front of him accross his huge working desk in his office room, and he was telling me about how unfair insurance companies are, how he had contributed the premiums for the past 15 years and all he could claim is RM70 per day if he is hospitalised. Further to the grumbling, he also mentioned he had had a bad day and scolded some people. I sensed that what he was saying was unreasonable and he was definitely not well. So it was time for me to use some NLP (Neuro Linguisist Program) methods. I agreed with him on how he felt and raised my voice and speech rhythm to match his. I gave him a ’clarification’ question by asking “Are you saying all these in front of me because you felt that I am responsible for all this?”. Immediately he stood up and replied “I am not blaming you, I have never said that I blame you and did you hear me say that it was your fault? It is just that I feel really cheated. I have been consistently paying the premiums and now when I need it, it is such an insultingly small amount”. Then I stood up (to match him) and said “Insurance companies pay claims according to the terms in the policies, and to put crudely, you bought a small underwear when you were very little and now that you have already grown up, the underwear no longer fits you” (said in a loud and fast way to match him). Then he smiled a little and agreed that it was indeed a very small underwear and he is a grown man now.
Then he sat down and said “Can you help me cancel all the hospitalisation benefits with immediate effect? I have just paid the renewal premiums and I want the money back”. In response, I had to manage his expectation by saying that since the premiums have already been paid and the unexpired amount is small, we will just leave the amounts in the policy. Then he boomed again “I don’t trust you agents, I want the cheque! I know it may be less than RM100, but I want the cheque, I don’t care. I know it is very troublesome for you but you have to do it, I don’t care!”. In my opinion, I don’t mind doing it for him. In fact, I have done lots of these similar services for people who are not even my customers. The only reservation was the phrase “I don’t trust you agents”. I must save this PR disaster on behalf the entire insurance industry. So this was what I came up with. I told him “I have never seen your previous 2 policies, who knows you might have some other riders (term attached to life) or supplementary benefits that are just as small and you may want to get rid of them? You know, some other ’small underwears’ you may want to discard? Please bring the policies and fill up the ‘Alteration Forms’ to cancel the insurance benefits that you may consider irrelevant. We will photostat the forms and you keep one copy and I keep one copy. This way you don’t need to trust anybody but your own eyes”.
After saying this, there was a moment of silence and he said “Ya! I will bring the policies to you and thanks for dropping by”. I replied “Take care my friend and I understand how you feel”. At this very moment, his face squirmed in pain. He put his hands on his chest and said he felt very unwell. Then he put both elbows on the table whilst he was in a sitting position, dipped his head between his elbows and looked down onto the floor. I got worried. I asked his staff to get the Ambulance, but he insisted it was not necessary, and he had been on the ambulance once before and but this time no need (not bad enough I guess).
Insurance consultants are a well trained lot, if I may say so myself. After some years, we are quite ok with handling our own emotions when it comes to customers service. But one thing I can never get over is the sadness of seeing people falling ill, very …. very ill.
Heart disease is a silent disease. This means it just happens without any warning. If you are overweight or have a significant belly you are almost certain to have it. Having it means, at least the heart arteries are already clogging up. It is high time to go for a medical check up and/or enter into some slimming & fitness programme.
